Fri 6 Feb 2009
I have just checked the new version of Mayi. I found it has an interesting feature that helps new user to make friends. It shows you updates from 100 temporary friends and a big score if you can make them as your real friends within a period.
It’s a problem of any social network that you will need to have a sizable friend list to feel interesting. To develop your friend list is the number one task you will need to do after entering a new social network. The way to offer it as a game like task is better than to just show you some head shots of certain pretty dude.
Another related problem is that how you would accept friend request you will probably received from these sites. Most of them you don’t actually know. Don’t be fooled by the number of common friends you have. Your friends don’t know them either.
You can either accept them all, which will result in a big friends list that you really know little of them. Or you can strictly research them one by one if they are really the one you want, but that is time consuming. You go to social network to relax, not to receive a burden.
I used to take the former way to accept them all. In this way, you won’t have much burden to deal with those requests. And it’s good to have a bigger influence in social network, which has become another kind of media, aka social media.
But I have realized that there’s third way to deal with them. And it’s better than the former two ways in my mind at this moment. I will just accept those I really know, but leave others untouched. I don’t ignore them. In case, I get to know them in the future, I don’t need to request back. If I have too much time in my hand, I will speak with some of them, since they opt-in to become my friend.
That sounds interesting? Sure, it sounds interesting.